Domestic Violence Awareness Day – Bloggers Unite

Domestic Violence Awareness Day

Domestic Violence Awareness Day

Domestic Violence Awareness Day – Bloggers Unite

Domestic Violence is a growing problem around the world; do your part to help save people from abuse.

If you feel you are in physical danger immediately call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-787-3224.

Cycle of violence

Domestic abuse falls into a common pattern, or cycle of violence: Cycle of violence

  • Abuse — The abuser lashes out with aggressive or violent behavior. The abuse is a power play designed to show the victim “who is boss.”
  • Guilt — After the abusive episode, the abuser feels guilt, but not over what he’s done to the victim. The guilt is over the possibility of being caught and facing consequences.
  • Rationalization or excuses — The abuser rationalizes what he’s done. He may come up with a string of excuses or blame the victim for his own abusive behavior—anything to shift responsibility from himself.
  • “Normal” behavior — The abuser does everything he can to regain control and keep the victim in the relationship. He may act as if nothing has happened, or he may turn on the charm. This peaceful honeymoon phase may give the victim hope that the abuser has really changed this time.
  • Fantasy and planning — The abuser begins to fantasize about abusing his victim again, spending a lot of time thinking about what she’s done wrong and how he’ll make her pay. Then he makes a plan for turning the fantasy of abuse into reality.
  • Set-up — The abuser sets up the victim and puts his plan in motion, creating a situation where he can justify abusing her.

The Full Cycle of Domestic Violence

A man abuses his partner. After he hits her, he experiences self-directed guilt. He says, “I’m sorry for hurting you.” What he does not say is, “Because I might get caught.” He then rationalizes his behavior by saying that his partner is having an affair with someone. He tells her “If you weren’t such a worthless whore I wouldn’t have to hit you.” He then acts contrite, reassuring her that he will not hurt her again. He then fantasizes and reflects on past abuse and how he will hurt her again. He plans on telling her to go to the store to get some groceries. What he withholds from her is that she has a certain amount of time to do the shopping. When she is held up in traffic and is a few minutes late, he feels completely justified in assaulting her because “you’re having an affair with the store clerk.” He has just set her up.

Source: Mid-Valley Women’s Crisis Service

Your abuser’s apologies and loving gestures in between the episodes of abuse can make it difficult to leave. He may make you believe that you are the only person who can help him, that things will be different this time, and that he truly loves you. However, the dangers of staying are real.

Domestic abuse often escalates from threats and verbal abuse to physical violence and even murder. And while physical injury may be the most obvious danger, the emotional and psychological consequences of domestic abuse are also severe. No one deserves this kind of pain—and your first step to breaking free is recognizing that your situation is abusive. Once you acknowledge the reality of the abusive situation, then you can get the help you need.

Signs of an abusive relationship

There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most significant sign is fear of your partner. Other signs include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation.

To determine whether your relationship is abusive, answer the questions in the table below. The more “yes” answers, the more likely it is that you’re in an abusive relationship.

SIGNS OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
Your Inner Thoughts and Feeling Your Partner’s Belittling Behavior
Do you:

  • feel afraid of your partner much of the time?
  • avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?
  • feel that you can’t do anything right for your partner?
  • believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?
  • wonder if you’re the one who is crazy?
  • feel emotionally numb or helpless?
Does your partner:

  • humiliate, criticize, or yell at you?
  • treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends or family to see?
  • ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?
  • blame you for his own abusive behavior?
  • see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person?
Your Partner’s Violent Behavior or Threats Your Partner’s Controlling Behavior
Does your partner:

  • have a bad and unpredictable temper?
  • hurt you, or threaten to hurt or kill you?
  • threaten to take your children away or harm them?
  • threaten to commit suicide if you leave?
  • force you to have sex?
  • destroy your belongings?
Does your partner:

  • act excessively jealous and possessive?
  • control where you go or what you do?
  • keep you from seeing your friends or family?
  • limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
  • constantly check up on you?

Types of domestic violence and abuse

There are different types of domestic abuse, including emotional, physical, sexual, and economic abuse. Many abusers behave in ways that include more than one type of domestic abuse, and the boundaries between some of these behaviors may overlap.

Emotional or psychological abuse

Emotional or psychological abuse can be verbal or nonverbal. Its aim is to chip away at your feelings of self-worth and independence. If you’re the victim of emotional abuse, you may feel that there is no way out of the relationship, or that without your abusive partner you have nothing. Emotional abuse includes verbal abuse such as yelling, name-calling, blaming, and shaming. Isolation, intimidation, and controlling behavior also fall under emotional abuse. Additionally, abusers who use emotional or psychological abuse often throw in threats of physical violence.

You may think that physical abuse is far worse than emotional abuse, since physical violence can send you to the hospital and leave you with scars. But, the scars of emotional abuse are very real, and they run deep. In fact, emotional abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse—sometimes even more so. Furthermore, emotional abuse usually worsens over time, often escalating to physical battery.

Physical abuse

When people talk about domestic violence, they are often referring to the physical abuse of a spouse or intimate partner. Physical abuse is the use of physical force against someone in a way that injures or endangers that person. There’s a broad range of behaviors that come under the heading of physical abuse, including hitting, grabbing, choking, throwing things, and assault with a weapon.

Physical assault or battering is a crime, whether it occurs inside or outside of the family. The police have the power and authority to protect you from physical attack.

Sexual abuse

Sexual abuse is common in abusive relationships. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, between one-third and one-half of all battered women are raped by their partners at least once during their relationship. Any situation in which you are forced to participate in unwanted, unsafe, or degrading sexual activity is sexual abuse. Forced sex, even by a spouse or intimate partner with whom you also have consensual sex, is an act of aggression and violence. Furthermore, women whose partners abuse them physically and sexually are at a higher risk of being seriously injured or killed.

Economic or financial abuse

Remember, an abuser’s goal is to control you, and he will frequently hurt you to do that. In addition to hurting you emotionally and physically, an abusive partner may also hurt you in the pocketbook. Economic of financial abuse includes:

  • Controlling the finances.
  • Withholding money or credit cards.
  • Giving you an allowance.
  • Making you account for every penny you spend.
  • Stealing from you or taking your money.
  • Exploiting your assets for personal gain.
  • Withholding basic necessities (food, clothes, medications, shelter).
  • Preventing you from working or choosing your own career.
  • Sabotaging your job (making you miss work, calling constantly)

Domestic violence warning signs

Take Precautions

Call 911 or the police in your community if you suspect a case of domestic violence.

It’s impossible to know with certainty what goes on behind closed doors, but there are some telltale signs and symptoms of domestic violence and abuse. If you witness a number of warning signs in a friend, family member, or co-worker, you can reasonably suspect domestic abuse.

  • Frequent injuries, with the excuse of “accidents”
  • Frequent and sudden absences from work or school
  • Frequent, harassing phone calls from the partner
  • Fear of the partner, references to the partner’s anger
  • Personality changes (e.g. an outgoing woman becomes withdrawn)
  • Excessive fear of conflict
  • Submissive behavior, lack of assertiveness
  • Isolation from friends and family
  • Insufficient resources to live (money, credit cards, car) Domestic Violence and Abuse: Help, Treatment, Intervention, and Prevention
  • Depression, crying, low self-esteem

Reporting suspected domestic abuse is important. If you’re afraid of getting involved, remember that the report is confidential and everything possible will be done to protect your privacy. You don’t have to give your name, and your suspicions will be investigated before anyone is taken into custody. Most important, you can protect the victim from further harm by calling for help.

Foods and Tips that Relieve Stress

Strawberies calm stress and reduce anxiety.

Strawberries can calm stress and reduce anxiety.

Good foods to help relieve stress:

Avocados
Nuts
Bananas
Oranges
Soy
Spinach
Strawberries
Turkey

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Stress hormones:

trigger back pain
weaken the immune system.
make blood sugar rise and can promote diabetes.
increases your chances of developing gum disease.
Can cause depression.

80% of fatigue is from stress. Get a 20-30 minute cat nap before 4 pm.

Stress can be produced by drugs, chemicals, infection, surgery, noise, excessive fatigue, psychological upsets, resentments, hatred and hundreds of other factors.

Job Stress Fuels Disease

Studies have shown that workplace stress can lead to serious ailments such as an increase in rates of heart disease, flu virus, metabolic syndrome and high blood pressure.

Some studies have found stress can cause unhealthy behaviors, such as eating poorly or drinking more alcohol, which can then lead to health problems. In the new study, the researchers suggest stress can have a more direct effect, disrupting the body’s ability to process glucose, leading to diabetes. Those who are chronically stressed are more likely to develop Type 2 diabetes. The results held even when factors like age, sex, exercise and obesity were taken into account.

Stress leads to emotional exhaustion, physical fatigue or exhaustion and cognitive weariness (slow thinking).

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Affection signals the brain to release oxytocin, a hormone that boosts feelings of affection and is a buffer against stress–and has even been used to treat depression.

We all need to be touched several times a day. Hug family and friends to raises level of Oxytocin that slows the body’s response to stress. Smooching signals the brain to release oxytocin, a hormone that boots feelings of affection and is a buffer against stress–and has even been used to treat depression.*This is why we al need to be touched several times a day.

One of the best weapons against tension is laughter which lowers levels of the damaging stress hormone cortisol. (Cortisol will cause us to crave comfort foods like chocolate cake.) Laughter reverses the constriction of blood vessels, helps protect brain cells and helps us get rid of the fat stomach that cortisol gives us in times of stress.

Stress is detrimental to the immune system and laughter has the ability to strengthen the immune system. Laughter helps boost the immune function by raising levels of infection fighting T-cells, produces a general sense of well being. It works as a prescription drug but is entirely natural and has no negative side effects.

People who get enough sleep feel significantly more cheerful the next day (plus it helps get rid of the damaging stress hormone cortisol in your stomach which makes you look fat). Lack of sleep can lead to strokes, heart attacks, high blood pressure, psychiatric problems, weight gain, decreased alertness, impaired memory and cognitive ability and along with the increased stress.
Get plenty of sleep.

Go to bed early (at 9:00, if you have to) and try to wake naturally without an alarm clock. Unplug the phone in your bedroom so you can’t be bothered. Drink milk at bedtime to sleep better and be significantly more alert the next day. Any variety even lactose-reduced, skim, full-fat or flavored will work.

Siberian Eleuthero (aka Siberian ginseng) helps keep you sharp and alert. It helps support the adrenal glands which become depleted during stress. 200 mg capsule twice daily (health food stores)

Vitamin C helps reduce the physical and psychological toll of stress, and even lowered stress-induced high blood pressure as much as 10% when taken regularly. Orange juice is proven to lower levels of cortisol, 1000 mg Vitamin C- completely wipes out elevated levels of stress hormone cortisol.

Grapefruit and oranges and whey protein contain a stress busting ingredient and will help you stay calm tension free. Whey contains alpha lactalbumin that boosts the body’s level of tryptophan, a building block of the feel-good hormone serotonin by as much as 43%. (Serotonin is a brain chemical that reduces hunger and boosts our sense of well being. When serotonin is low (which happens when you go “low carb”) you become increasingly dissatisfied with both food and life, making it harder to stick to a diet. Low serotonin levels make us much more prone to nighttime munchies but when serotonin levels are high we just don’t crave sweets. We need the right cards to get thin.

Foods that are considered sources of tryptophan (a natural sedative) are dairy products, beef, turkey meat poultry, barley, brown rice, fish, soybeans, and peanuts.

600 mg. of Valerian daily for a week. Valerian is a natural muscle relaxant, so it also is an excellent remedy for stress induced insomnia.

Lemon balm- Drink lemon balm tea or take an 80 mg. capsule three times a day (health food store)

10 minutes of sun

Orange scent- a drop calms people and puts them in a more positive mood.

Relaxing also helps you *to unlock fat stores caused by the stress**hormone cortisol.*

Read something fun*instead of stress-inducing “thrillers”.

Chew gum to relieve muscle tension (preferably Big Red, which contains cinnamon which naturally kills bacteria in our mouths for up to 30 minutes after*wards)

5-10 min walk to help reduce stress by boosting feel good endorphins in your body. Stress constricts blood vessels and lowers our immune system and ability to fight off disease.*Just 30 minutes, three to four times a week will keep your stress hormones down. Anything that gets your heart rate up–even heavy cleaning–will work.*

Deep breathing calms the nervous system, lowers blood pressure and heart rate and reduces the level of cortisol.*

Nuts, rich in magnesium , a mineral proven to instantly help people feel calm and content or a cheese plate– the protein boosts serotonin levels in the brain, putting you in a happier, more relaxed mood. Serotonin is a brain chemical that reduces hunger and boosts our sense of well being. When serotonin is low (which happens when you go “low carb”) you become increasingly dissatisfied with both food and life, making it harder to stick to a diet. Low serotonin levels make us much more prone to nighttime munchies but when serotonin levels are high we just don’t crave sweets. We need the right cards to get thin. V-8 stops the munchies Protein helps prevent high levels of the stress cortisol. (Good sources eggs, fish, chicken tofu and beans.

Magnesium rich foods- tofu, cashews, almonds, turkey, spinach, avocados and Brazil nuts-*
strawberries
apples

Wear the calming color of blue (the color red can actually make you feel stressed.)

Listen to 25 minutes of relaxing music daily can lower stress hormone by 25%.

Make sure you are taking a multi-vitamin daily.

Avoid alcohol as it depletes your body of B-Vitamins and magnesium.
B vitamins are very important and should be taken in a complex with all of the other B vitamins. (B-150 at Wal-Mart is a good one.)*Molasses, Brewer’s Yeast and wheat germ are rich in “B” vitamins

Fact: If you exercise to lose weight chances are you won’t stick with it. But if you walk or do other exercise to lower stress, chances are that you will.*

The easiest way to solve any problem is to simply let it go. Let go of the struggle and you will be released.*

Stress increases your chances of developing gum disease.

Lavender, rose and jasmine oil are all natural stress relievers.*

Before entering a stressful situation take a moment to reflect on what’s most important you–ex: your faith. It will tame your body’s production of the stress hormone cortisol.

FACT: There is a link between everyday stress, tension and excess stubborn belly fat. High levels of the stress hormone, cortisol can cause lots of excess body fat to accumulate around your waist and tummy…(that weight gain that gives us a big basket-ball like stomach) creating a bulging midsection and destroying your figure. It is a health threat to an estimated 47 million Americans. The harmful combination of everyday stess, overeating, and excess cortisol…all conspires to keep us overweight, tired, and thick around the middle.*

Cortisol, which has also been linked to Alzheimers, causes us to crave comfort foods like chocolate cake.

* Ok….stress–> cortisol –> Alzheimer’s and now they are showing Alzheimer’s has a link to diabetes! .

Chronic stress triggers major biochemical changes that practically give our bodies no choice but to gain weight. When Cortisol is consistently released into the blood stream the digestive system becomes weak and unable to alert the liver that the stomach is full. Cortisol causes a blood sugar flux that sparks carb cravings so intense that sticking to a diet is nearly impossible.

A tongue that is red and bumpy it is a sign of cortisol overload.

Protein (beans, chicken, eggs and fish are foods that counterattack the cortisol.) and helps prevent high levels of the stress cortisol. (Stress slows down metabolism which causes weight gain.)

To ease stress, try this acupuncture trick: Hold out your right arm, wrist straight and fingers relaxed. Measure two fingerwidths down from your wrist; press that point for 10 seconds, then release for 10 seconds. Repeat nine times. Pressing this point sends a calming energy flow to the heart and triggers a 22 percent drop in cortisol almost instantly.

Stress can slow down your metabolism. When the body is faces with stress of any kind–a traffic jam, an illness, an over-wrought boss or even the stress of dieting –it releases anti-stress (adrenal) hormones, particularly norepinephrine. In a well-nourished, fit person, the body recovers quickly from the stress and goes on as before. Most average Americans are existing on what can be termed a “fast food” that depletes their reserves of micro-nutrients. When this happens, the body’s fat-burning ability is impaired.*

To reduce the effect of stress on your body and get your metabolism in high gear you need anti-stress vitamins and minerals (which can also help you control hunger and cravings and help you control stress) and you need to be active. (You may not even feel like being active now but once you get your metabolism corrected you will start losing weight and feel so good about it you will want to be more active to burn more calories.)

The Department of Health lists caffeine along with nicotine and heroin as an addictive substance. Caffeine is also a real stress on the body–one that has a negative effect on your metabolism. The anti-stress hormones are the substances that prepare your body for an appropriate reaction to stress.*

Caffeine causes the release of these anti-stress hormones. Eventually the body’s supply of these hormones is depleted. When that happens you begin to notice symptoms: fatigue, headaches, irritability and a general run-down feeling. What you aren’t noticing is that due to the depletion of the anti-stress hormones, your metabolism is slowing down and your ability to burn calories has been compromised. You simply can’t lose weight effectively.

Anti-stress formula vitamin will help you lose weight because stress slows your metabolism. Get a good quality multiple vitamin and mineral compound containing 10,000 IUs of beta-carotene and approximately 50 mg of each of the B vitamins plus 1,000 mg of Vitamin C, 400 IUs of Vitamin E and 50 mcg of selenium.*

When we eat a candy bar–which contains more sugar than a body can use in a week– blood-sugar levels goes up and the pancreas overreacts, producing an excess of insulin. This flood of insulin depresses your blood sugar severely. In response the adrenal glands release anti-stress hormones, which in turn release the sugar that is stored in the liver for emergencies.

The ultimate result is that you get a brief burst of energy from the candy. Then your insulin level goes up and your spirits fall. Suddenly you feel tired, irritable, moody, depressed–and you don’t know why. But finally your adrenal gland kicks in and you experience feelings of anxiety, including nervousness and sometimes even palpitations. The extreme rise and fall of insulin levels makes you hungry. Sugar is causing symptoms of energy followed by depression followed by anxiety and a constant feeling of hunger.

*Make sure to talk to your doctor about the foods that you eat and the level of stress that you have. I am not a doctor

Support Incentives for Clean Energy Jobs

Support incentives for clean energy jobs

Join the 73,506 people who have signed the petition!

The Petition Reads:

Dear Members of Congress:

“I urge you to support tax incentives for renewable energy. These incentives help create jobs and lower greenhouse gases. They are the kind of policies that will help solve the climate crisis.”

By raising your voice on the issue of clean energy, you’re in some very good company. A great many Unlikely Alliances have formed to make the call for clean power:

  • The United Steelworkers, as part of the Blue-Green Alliance, have joined the We Campaign. They see the great jobs potential in the renewable energy sector, and they want safe and affordable energy sources for our manufacturing sector.
  • Green For All brings renewable energy jobs right to the heart of America’s inner cities. They are unifying diverse urban communities around a clean energy future.
  • The 25 x ’25 Alliance, based largely in America’s Farm Belt, is pushing the U.S. to derive 25% of its energy from renewable sources by 2025. It’s an ambitious, but attainable, goal – so long as Congress acts.
  • Read more about clean energy tax incentives.

    Sign the Petition, Click Here!

    No Vacation for School Lunches

    No Vacation for School Lunches

    When children clean out their lockers and say farewell to school for the summer, there are some things they won’t miss. Tests. Homework. Alarm clocks. But for the 16 million children who are eligible for the free or reduced-price lunches over the summer, there’s one thing they could miss—lunch. When the school year ends, 80% of participants—more than 12.2 million children—lose access to federal meal programs.

    For more than a decade, the Sodexo Foundation has helped cities across the country bridge that gap with Feeding Our Future, a summer lunch program serving more than 7,000 children nationwide.

    Read More

    Students Fit Volunteering into Summer Plans

    The fight against hunger is waged with enthusiasm and commitment by students of all ages across the country. They volunteer at shelters and food banks and organize hunger awareness programs. Many college students participate in The Campus Kitchens Project, for which the Sodexo Foundation provided the seed money and continues to support at colleges nationwide.

    During the school year it’s easy to find a “home” on campus for volunteer activities—every bulletin board and school web site is full of opportunities. During the summer, it takes a bit more work, but organizations with national reach are just waiting for young people to sign up for a day, a week, or more of volunteering, wherever their travels take them.

    To keep your fight against hunger going all year long, click on any of the links below for location information.

    Fight for Human Rights – Tear Down Guantánamo Bay

     

    Fight for Human Rights!

    Fight for Human Rights – Tear Down Guantánamo Bay

    Today, May 15th, is Bloggers Unite for Human Rights, in which thousands of bloggers will write thousands of blogs dedicated to preserving human rights. The issue I want to focus on today is the unjust activities happening at Guantánamo Bay.

    Guantanamo Bay Information

    The Guantanamo Bay detention camp is a United States operated by Joint Task Force Guantanamo since 2002 in Guantanamo Bay Naval Base, which is on the shore of Guantánamo Bay, Cuba.[1] The detainment areas consist of three camps in the base: Camp Delta (which includes Camp Echo), Camp Iguana, and Camp X-Ray (which has been closed). The facility is often referred to as Guantanamo, or Gitmo (derived from the abbreviation “GTMO”). The detainees held have been classified by the United States as “enemy combatants

    Since the beginning of the War in Afghanistan, 775 detainees have been brought to Guantanamo, approximately 420 of which have been released. As of August 9, 2007, approximately 355 detainees remain. More than a fifth are cleared for release but may have to wait months or years because U.S. officials are finding it increasingly difficult to allocate places to send them, according to officials and defense lawyers.

    Prisoners are held in small mesh-sided cells, and lights are kept on day and night. Detainees have rations similar to those of U.S. forces, with consideration for Muslim dietary needs. However on occasion many of the detainees have been denied access to the Quran for daily prayer, due to claimed “high security measures” and as a form of preparation for interrogation. Detainees are kept in isolation most of the day, are blindfolded when moving within the camp and are forbidden to talk in groups of more than three. United States doctrine in dealing with prisoners of war states that isolation and silence are effective means in breaking down the will to resist interrogation. Red Cross inspectors and released detainees have alleged acts of torture, including sleep deprivation, the use of so-called truth drugs, beatings and locking in confined and cold cells. Human rights groups argue that indefinite detention constitutes torture.

    The use of Guantánamo Bay as a military prison has drawn criticism from human rights organizations and others, who cite reports that detainees have been tortured or otherwise poorly treated. Supporters of the detention argue that trial review of detentions has never been afforded to prisoners of war, and that it is reasonable for enemy combatants to be detained until the cessation of hostilities.

    The Bush administration has declared that the Third Geneva Convention does not apply to al-Qaeda or Taliban fighters, since the Geneva convention only applies to uniformed soldiers of a recognized government. Jim Phillips of the Heritage Foundation claimed that “some of these terrorists who are not recognized as soldiers don’t deserve to be treated as soldiers.” Critics of U.S. policy say the government has violated the Conventions in attempting to create a distinction between “prisoners of war” and “illegal combatants.” A U.S. district court partially agreed with the Bush administration, finding that the Geneva Conventions apply to Taliban fighters but not to al-Qaeda terrorists. Amnesty International has called the situation “a human rights scandal” in a series of reports.

    One of the allegations of abuse at the camp is the abuse of the religion of the detainees. The US government has claimed that they respect all religious and cultural sensitivities. However, prisoners released from the camp have alleged that abuse of religion including flushing the Qur’an down the toilet, defacing the Qur’an, writing comments and remarks on the Qur’an, tearing pages out of the Qur’an and denying detainees a copy of the Qur’an.

    Suicides

    By 2008 there had been at least 4 completed suicides and hundreds of suicide attempts in Guantanamo that are public knowledge. No information is available on the number of suicides of prisoners that are classified secret, or their suicide attempts. On June 10, 2006, three detainees were found dead, who, according to the Pentagon, “killed themselves in an apparent suicide pact”.

    Facts:

    1.) Lasting security and real justice for the victims of terrorism cannot be achieved without real justice and respect for human rights.

    2.) Illegally detained in US custody at Guantánamo and elsewhere are not being released.

    3.) Those held at Guantánamo and elsewhere, including in secret detention centres, are human beings who haven’t seen their homes or families for years and have faced torture and other ill-treatment.

    4.) Indefinite and secret detentions are contrary to just human rights and are against international law.

    5.) Each day that illegal detention at Guantánamo and elsewhere continues is a day too long.

    Take Action

    Tearitdown.org is Amnesty International’s global initiative to end illegal US detentions and a major online action under Amnesty International’s campaign to Counter Terror With Justice.

     

    Take Action, Click Here!

    For more on Bloggers Unite for Human Rights, Click Here!

    What Happened to Morality?

    Morality?

    Morality


    What has happened to morality? I got an e-mail from a girl that claimed that her father was a high ranking official, who was assassinated in Africa, and he had a large sum of money and she, the daughter, was the next of kin to receive the money. She said that since she was sixteen, the bank wouldn’t let her claim the money, so she said she needed a reliable foreign source to send the money to.

    I replied to her first e-mail, because I wanted to believe her. I thought surely no one would go through this much just to try to pull off a scam. She even sent me her father’s death certificate

    This was her reply:


    “Dear sir,
    I just saw your mail now,
    thank you so much for your reply may GOD bless you,
    please I am giving you this bank information with trust so please keep your promise of being honest with me ,please don’t betrayed me,
    so write to the bank now to confirm and to let them know that you are my trustee which they requested from me because of my under age,
    dear I promise you, that you will not have any problem in claiming this fund for me because i have all the document of this money here with me I will give it to you when you write to the bank and when the bank approved you of claiming the fund for me, when you write to them , they will now tell us the possibility of transferring the money in your account on my behalf, and you know that I am in the refugee camp and access to Internet is through our church cyber which I can use when we come for morning or evening service, so please I don’t have phone or even money to call you but I will give you now our reverend father’s phone number (Rev name Dickson David) tell (###-###-#####) so please call me any time even if I am not in the church the Rev will send for me and the camp manager will allow me because of the Rev.


    My problem now is please keep your promise ,
    and let me know when they replied you.

    I will be waiting for your reply and call concerning how you went with the bank.

    Thanks,

    Mariama Jones”


    She gave me a fraudulent e-mail of the bank, because I contacted the bank and verified that none of the information that she gave me was true. The phone number, death certificate, and e-mail addresses were all fabricated. This shows that evil exists in many platforms in this world, and some people just don’t care about morality. Death is no joke, and definitely not how you try to scam someone. She said she was an orphan in a refugee camp, just to try to scam me out of money. Where is morality? Who raised these people?

    Please teach others to have a pure morality, because the world is corrupting more and more every day. It cannot be stopped completely, but we can’t let ourselves degrade into a cruel and unjust society. We as a society must stay pure and see beyond this haze of evil. Just stay pure, please- for the sake of humanity.

    Google Web Search Features

    Google Web Search Features

    In addition to providing easy access to billions of web pages, Google has many special features to help you to find exactly what you’re looking for. I have included how to use Google’s “book” and “definition” search features. I hope you find this useful! 🙂

    Book Search
    Print Google is helping to get the world’s information online by bringing books themselves online. Whenever books in our Google Book Search index contain content that matches your search terms, you’ll see links to those books under Book Results at the top of your search results page. Click on any book title and you’ll see the page in that book which contains your search terms, as well as other information about the title. Click one of the links under “Buy this Book” and you’ll go straight to a bookstore selling that book online.

    An example would be searching Google for “books about dragons

    Definitions

    To see a definition for a word or phrase, simply type the word “define,” then a space, and then the word(s) you want defined. If Google has seen a definition for the word or phrase on the Web, it will retrieve that information and display it at the top of your search results.

    You can also get a list of definitions by including the special operator “define:” with no space between it and the term you want defined. For example, the search [define:World Wide Web] will show you a list of definitions for “World Wide Web” gathered from various online sources.